bad people
Another good book is Crucial Conversations. The author explained this one interesting point about frames of mind really well. Essentially saying:
“Villainous people do not exist, also you are not a victim. These 2 concepts are simply frames of mind utilized by individuals that make excuses for not achieving.”
Now don’t take that literally; some people in this world are bad, also some people get treated really unfairly. But in a developed society it is more common for people to blame others rather than accept responsibility.
Bad people are rare and a good proportion of these ‘bad’ people are simply regular human beings in bad situations (A product of their environment).
Anyway the idea is that anytime you start blaming someone else for your problems stop and walk in their shoes for a little bit.
Strikee 