Being a better person

I’ve been reading How to Win Friends and Influence People and so far have found it pretty interesting. In general the author emphasises the golden rule “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” but he goes into the little details of why this solves every interpersonal problem. I would really like to incorporate his ideals into my life more;

A quick run down of his rules (In a nutshell):

  1. Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.
  2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
  3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
  4. Never show others that you are not interested in what they have to say.
  5. Become genuinely interested in other people.
  6. Smile.
  7. Remember that a person’s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
  8. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
  9. Talk in terms of the other person’s interest.
  10. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.

So I am going to print of a copy of these and hang them above my desk so I can see them everyday and constantly be reminded to be a better person.

Beauty in Inatimate Objects

I caught myself yesterday sitting in awe of the beauty of two mathematical concepts yesterday. Literally, I just sat staring at these ideas for 5 minutes because I couldn’t believe that they were possible:

  1. The first is a way of encrypting data, the XOR cipher. The reason I am so amazed by this cipher is because of how simple it is (Granted it is probably too simple to do anything worthwhile) but as I saw this tiny program decrypt useless information into meaningful data I couldn’t believe it. It’s tiny, it’s simple, it’s beautiful…
  2. The other one was Division by two in Binary; simply by shifting the bytes right one place you divide the number by two (Upon further research I realised this was related to shifting the decimal place in a normal [Base 10] number system, it divides or times the number by 10). Again, so simple, so beautiful…

But enough of being nerdy, the point is that the more I research and learn about this stuff the more I appreciate how amazing some of the methods within are. This apply’s to other area’s also, after studying anatomy I began to appreciate how complex everything in the human body is.

If you look hard and deep enough into anything you will find the beauty behind it. This guy stared at screws for a while and began to appreciate the beauty behind them!.

Occasionally when you wrap your head around a concept you can’t help but be dumbstruck by everything about it, it’s like discovering something that is flawless but at the same time indestructible.

This type of beauty is superior than the visual definition of beauty (e.g. “Look at all the Colours!”), it inspires you to move forward and clears all doubt that you are following the right path. When something has the capacity to do that it should be cherished.

I guess the conclusion I came to is that everything is beautiful, and it should all be cherished. Because it’s friggin crazy that anything exists at all.

 

The Entrepreneurial Thought Process

I always used to look upon people who called themselves entrepreneurs with envy, I could never envision the world’s exploitable business opportunities like they could and it would leave me feeling rather disappointed with myself. To reassure myself I could always find ways to optimise methods and systems, but that was mostly because I would see a human doing something that a computer or robot could do better.

However since the holiday period has begun I have started noticing things; like little niches that could be profitable enough for a business to exist. I think when the mind is not preoccupied with exams and class’s (Or work) the empty state of mind, free from stress, allows a perfect environment for abstract idea generation, such as recognising market opportunities.

There are other things too, I have been researching in other areas (Mostly IT stuff) and it has allowed an “integration” almost, of my thoughts. In particular realising where my skills can be applied to new areas. In general this research has acted as inspiration which has made all the difference.

So I think I need to do more of this stuff, I plan to read the news more often, read the business and investment magazines (And the technology ones also) to create a constant source of inspiration for myself.

Hopefully this will allow my google document of ideas to grow and maybe one day an idea in there will actually turn out to be a workable start-up.

Types of power

There is a management theory that discusses the forms of power that people have over others. The five types are:

  • Coercive: Where you punish the other person.
  • Legitimate: Where you have been given (or paid to have) real authority over someone.
  • Referent: Where you have power because of the people you know.
  • Expert: Where you have power because you are skilled and the other person isn’t.
  • Reward: Where you positively motivate the other person.

The highest power I believe is Expert power; with Reward and Coercion being the lower forms.

Rewarding someone is temporary, often they will try to abuse your system to receive as much benefit as possible; and Coercive power causes reactance (Hostility).

The next two are also limited; Legitimate power often comes with rules and responsibilities that you must follow and while Referent is pretty useful (Having connections is important in the business world) the source of power is still external.

Expert power is the kind that brings you reverence, where people will believe and do as you say.

Achieving expert power requires dedication and practice to your skill. It also requires overcoming fear and egotism.

Then you have the strongest form of power. But as the Teachings of Don Juan states: self-interested beings  (Such as humans) are corrupted by power. To overcome this corruption is to reach an enlightened state of the soul. It means one has become a man of knowledge.

Choosing to live in the rat race

University students often have to live off tiny budgets, this is mostly because they don’t work and the little money they do get goes towards alcohol. Living like this sucks but it is not too difficult, here are some foods that are dirt cheap (Note: not very healthy)

Simple, now living healthy is a little more expensive but you can’t have everything (Super cheap or healthy).

See, Cheap Living is Easy

I could work 20 hours a week on the minimum wage in Australia and be able to comfortably afford to eat healthily, sleep in my nice bed, and play my favourite sports. All the good things.

Anyway it got me thinking, there are blogs about living cheap and getting your finances in order but they don’t really explain what to do with the excess money/time you get. Getting your finances in order is important, but there is more to life than simply living and being able to comfortably afford food and shelter.

However higher purposes need a solid foundation to work from, saving the world is impossible if one is too focused on ensuring that basic life necessities are around. So yeah financial education is important as a foundation for self actualisation.

The problem is that many people are slaves to their money, they confuse luxuries for necessities and have to work longer to cover theses “necessities”. In this situation a person isn’t free, they work hard and sacrifice to afford short lasting consumerist pleasures (The Rat Race).

Overcoming consumerism and materialism is the modern-day method of liberation. Once these burdens are shed working less is possible, allowing time to dedicate to better things. But no-one is going to tell you what these better things are, you have to do some heavy thinking to decide what you are going to pursue. Many people would rather work than be faced with this (They rationalise it as boring).

So much effort these days is allocated to addressing the issue of the rat race, but I don’t think it is the problem. Everyone is born free before slipping into a life of bad habits. Living on the cheap is easy, overcoming materialism is easy, Freeing yourself from the rat race is easy. But Living free is hard, it’s boring, it requires deep thinking and soul-searching.

So we choose the rat race, we consciously know that our lives aren’t complete but our subconscious is happy that it doesn’t have to deal with the pressures associated with freedom.

And these pressures? They are self inflicted fears of failure; with the open doors there is nothing stopping us from becoming great. But the possible humiliation is too terrifying.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.’ We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.  – Marianne Williamson

Stop eating that crap

With the solution I found yesterday to my motivation issue I am now moving onto the next problem I have, my diet.

Firstly not being able to cook for myself has been a huge obstacle to putting on muscle. For the first couple months of the session I pushed really hard, forcing down my 1200 calorie smoothies everyday, and I kept this up and was doing all right, the pace of my growth was slow for my standards but then I got sick. All the progress that took months of hard work was lost in a short week of zero appetite.

That sucks.

since then I saved my money and precious protein powder. If I couldn’t get my diet in order, the extra stress I was putting on my body by with heavy exercise wasn’t worth the effort.

Neither are the nutella sandwiches I have been eating (With white bread, note: sugar).

I am really keen to correct this awful diet I have been on, and I should be able to once I move off.

Now I reckon I have an okay knowledge of nutrition, I have read a couple of books on the topic but I believe I need a deeper understanding of it. So my plan is to catch up on chemistry and biology, and go into the difficult books that base their information on these scientific basics. Then apply them to my diet and exercise. With a little luck I should get my health back in order.

 

Time Planning

Sebastian Marshall loves the idea of time tracking and he has recently been posting about his daily routines in an attempt to be super productive. With the realisation I had yesterday about how unmotivated I am, I decided I need to start planning my days before I go to bed. I guess reading his posts convinced me that they might help my cause. So last night I took the some notes about what I wanted to get done today, it took me  10 minutes and consisted of only 12 dot points; I then went to bed.

The first thing I realised in the morning is that I had stuff to do, a sleep in wasn’t mentally feasible because there was a FULL LIST OF THINGS TO DO. This helped greatly because leaving the warmth of bed sucks.

I did all my normal morning routines but was I  incredible tired. This really made the extra sleep more desirable.. but the first thing on my list was to read for an hour, and although this was accidental, the hour in bed (reading) helped me get over the tiredness feeling.

So far my day feels pretty productive. I think there is much merit to this time tracking stuff, especially if one doesn’t have any external incentives to achieve goals.

I definitely think this is the solution to my motivation problems.

The funnest thing about procrastination

So exams are now over, I am free to spend all hours of the day dedicated to whatever activity I want. All those activities that were so urgent during study can now be finally attended to.

But they no longer are urgent.

In fact there is nothing except the desire to be lazy. Where 1 week ago it was killing me that I couldn’t go outside, now there is no reason to really want to. During the exams the only reason that going for a skateboard seemed so important was because I wasn’t allowed to go skateboarding.

And that is why procrastination is such an awesome tool for productivity. It makes you want things that normally you wouldn’t care for, cleaning the room or fixing the computer are boring but when compared to working they seem like the most fun-filled way to spend the day.

If only there was a way to harness this motivation and apply it when it is actually needed.

Caffeine sucks

I used to work with a heap of people who would always complain how they slept really bad, but within 5 minutes of that statement they would crack open their fourth energy drink for the day. I also know a lot of people who use coffee to push through the crazy amount of study that their course requires of them; more than a couple of them have caffeine withdrawal symptoms and can’t sleep without it.

Anyway I don’t drink coffee, haven’t had an energy drink this year, probably have had 1 coke in the last month. My resistance to the stuff would be really low. Then I make a really smart decision before going into my last exam and drink one of those 500ml Red Bulls. I sat down and while waiting for the paper to be handed out realised I couldn’t sit still. Then my hands started shaking. I guarantee if anyone looked at my eyes they would have been dilated.

After the exam was done I had a killer headache and needed to drink a heap of water to rehydrate. This is from only one can.

So yeah caffeine sucks, and I am pretty against it. However I would like to recognise the positive aspects; I finished my exam pretty quickly and my brain was working at 200%.

Colours

One thing about accountancy is that it is socially constructed, there is nothing tangible about accounting methods and every technique has been chosen from a huge list by someone who thought their way was better than everyone else’s.

This spawned heaps of thinking about what is real in this world and what is actually just that way because somebody made it that way.

So in my procrastination yesterday I listened to this podcast on colours and I came to the realisation that colours are socially constructed!

Like everything about colour had been a little funny to me, especially the idea of colour blindness. But after listening to this it made sense. I love that in so many cultures (Ancient Greece, 19th Century Japan) the difference between Green and Blue was hardly recognised.

Making the most definite, almost universally agreed upon idea of colour, a social construct. It is that way because someone told us so.

So if something so concrete as colour is actually a product of society then what else is?

 

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