Stability
Firstly I would like to define stability as being ALWAYS able to cover the physiological needs that you, as a human being, need. (See Maslows Hierarchy of Needs)
Looking back now I realise that my childhood had that stability aspect. There was never a time where I ever questioned having a bed to sleep in, nor whether I would have food on the table. These, and a few other things are pretty basic and a child’s need for this certainty is critical to them thinking the world is a good place.
I think that I am pretty good at stabilising any new situation that I come across and live fairly comfortably most of the time. However I see a few people who aren’t so good and volatility occurs frequently in their lives. Most commonly it arises from financially living outside their means, which leads to debt and stress.
Living in a developed western country makes it relatively easy to find work and to find a home. These 2 things pretty much cover every basic need that a human has (Either directly or Indirectly). So there is no excuse for instability here in Australia.
Now many people like to throw back the security and live their life on the edge. This is fine but it is important to remember that instability is only fun temporarily and after a while you need to recharge. This can only be done in a stable situation (AKA heading home to rest); also if you want to focus on higher things such as Self-Actualisation then the basics need to be covered invisibly (E.g. You can’t focus on higher things if you have to worry about the food situation).
I believe that this skill is an important part of growing up and becoming Independent.